Teachers Discuss How They Deal With Rowdy Middle School Boys

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    Font - r/Teachers u/Kiwi-Sorry. 1d Multiple 8th grade boys in a small class that have extreme attention seeking behavior and zero filter...and zero ability to be shamed.
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    Font - Title pretty much says it. I teach 8th grade English and have a smaller class one period of 13 students. 7 of these students are sweetheart boys and mature girls. 6 are extremely immature and rude boys that says racist comments, interrupt me and other kids to say nonsensical t that no one laughs at "TikTok except them. Stream-of-consciousness babble", and commenting on the poor girls appearances. There are 3 ring leaders who cannot be shamed and 3 kids that are just too stupid to know tha
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    Font - Most have IEPs that parents hide behind when I bring their outrageous behavior to their attention. I'm a 31 year old male with a track record of building great relationships with students, many of whom come back to visit, but I can't bond with these sorry punks. Waiting on them wastes too much time and gets out of hand, stern frank redirections are met with incredulity, and in-school suspensions from admin are a badge of honor. What do I do with these Andrew Tate worshippers?
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    Rectangle - uuuuuummmmm_actually · 1d ● Would you be able to disperse the other 7 to your other classes and just have one period of buffoonery? Reply 41.2k ↓ ...
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    Font - Kiwi-Sorry OP • 1d So crazy it might just work... G4752
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    Rectangle - Sail The World WithMe . 1d That's my current situation. I have one period with anarchy, the rest of the day is peaceful. 4550 ...
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    Font - CHumbusRaptor • 1d i remember in 6th grade all of students got split roughly into 3 groups. the bad/disruptive kids got herded into ONE CLASS/group together. and they stayed together for 6, 7, 8th grade. i believe the teachers conferred with all of the 5th grade elementary teachers to figure out who were the naughty ones. the teacher for the bad kids was......well, he was mister drill instructor.
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    Font - edit: not a teacher. they definitely didnt tell us if this was what they did. and there was mainly just ~10 rowdier/energetic boys *coincidentally* ending up with the strictest male teacher. + most of the skateboarders. + kids who's parents i suspect gave a lot of freedom. And the teacher was very popular with the boys, they liked him a lot. so maybe it was just kids who would need a firm hand. i personally hated getting yelled at by him (he was the PE teacher), he made me feel awful. als
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    Font - Salt_Air07 • 1d Divide & conquer. Isolate the ring leader, he now has a personalized assignment to work on in a different area or room. If he can work with a librarian, great. Keep the 2-3 weakest links in class, but physically separate them. Take the remaining 2 and let them know they'll be entering SPED once the semester is over, and hand them some ABC worksheets and a pack of crayons. I've taken down multiple groups of boys. The humiliation has to be done in private, and there's a peck
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    Font - Kiwi-Sorry OP • 1d You are an artist. ... 122
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    Rectangle - PlaySalieri. 1d I am really tired of IEPs being used as shields for terrible behavior ... Reply 226
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    Handwriting - Pink_Dragon_Lady. 1d They're getting out of hand, right? I would guess maybe 10-20% tops are truly IEP-worthy. ↑ 46 ↓ ...
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    Font - logick57. 1d Not gonna lie - saw your post and did a double take wondering if I'd posted and forgot it. Same deal - I teach 2 8th reading intervention classes and one has 11 boys, 7 just like yours, and 2 poor girls. Feel your pain. ... Reply 445
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    Font - mkculs. 1d Please consider filing a title IX complaint on behalf of those girls-and all the women those boys will think it's ok to harass in the future. ... 360
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    Human body - Kiwi-Sorry OP • 1d That maybe where things end up. It's not right and my admonishing does little to nothing. G 4 225
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    Font - BroadElderberry • 1d I've found that even when students aren't afraid of parents or authority, they're (usually) afraid of laws. I remember the first time I explained to my high schoolers what a mandated reporter was...it was the quietest that room was all year. 4 135 +
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    Rectangle - kindofhumble • 1d Haha I literally had those kids in my class last semester. What is the seating arrangement in your class? Reply 403
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    Font - Kiwi-Sorry OP. 1d I have them interspersed throughout my well- behaved students, but this has the effect of them just calling out to one another or distracting the others...the room's not huge. 4 383 + ... G
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    Font - nowaythrowawayallday. 1d Yeah if spacing them out, calling home, giving discipline, and giving incentives has no response, just put them in a table together. Do group projects. Let them fail. They may learn a lesson and they may not, but the kids who are trying will thank you for being able to focus more. ... 683
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    Font - IWentOutsideForThis • 1d I had a group of girl like this my 2nd or 3rd year teaching. After trying to separate them and having them scream across the room, I put them all at the same table. One even told me "oh man you have no idea what you did". Then we did a lab and they looked from person to person at their table and said "you did this on purpose. You know that none of us do the work." Yes, ma'am. They quietly failed together. ... 448
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    Font - No_Beautiful_5034 · 1d When my students say racist stuff I give them iss with the expectation of doing a two page report about the word they used (often the n word). It doesn't always work, but it's a start. Reply ... 167

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